Here Comes the Hammer

A smirky demeanor.  An eagerness to deliver bad news.  A willingness to be the bad guy.  It’s the callousness that might accompany the final step of employment for an individual.  Have you seen it?  Are you guilty of being this person?

From a humanistic standpoint, there is satisfaction in watching a poor performer lose.  It’s why movies like “Working Girl” or “9 to 5” are shown on TCM.  The plot lines are classic and stir up in us a desire to see someone pay for taking credit for the work of others.  We want to see that perpetrator fired.  We want to see the hard-working underdog get his/her retribution and overdue recognition.  Our nature inclines toward a measure of justice, fairness and goodness.

And yet, when a termination has to happen, even if for those reasons, do we in human resources lose our composure and impartiality?  Think about why Roz, the HR Manager, in "9 to 5" is believable.  And though we’re not judges, we do represent the larger picture for the organizational culture we seek to encourage.  If we’re cruel with someone’s feelings or circumstances, then others who work in the organization might view our approach as exemplary of how things are done at the company.  What was just about a termination might now open the door for sub-par treatment in other employment relationships.

Consider:

• Gossip – How many people really need to know about the termination?  The temptation to share with at least one other person is real.  And while that may not tempt you, it may be that the HR team has taken to inter-departmental gossip about a particular person’s departure.  We call that “safe” since it’s among the HR staff.  Is it?  What is our example to our junior staff members?  If we complain that HR is not included in some other components of the organization’s function and development, perhaps it’s due to the known loose lips of the HR department, even amongst each other.  Gossip is only about making you feel better about yourself, pure and simple.  Listen to what you’re saying about others as you share.  Would you just die if those personal notes were being shared about you to others?
• Just Cause – Of course, documentation is a necessary component of any good termination process as it really starts as part of the overall discipline process, but are you building a case out of a real problematic situation or more because you don’t like the person?  I have watched good employees be terminated because someone did not like a personality, a habit, a laugh (I’m not kidding), etc.  Would it be any surprise that people would be afraid to be around an HR department like this?  Who could be secure?  Look at why and how these terminations are occurring.  Validity and consistency of approach are pillars for the HR team.
• Management Training – Every termination is an opportunity to grow management.  Allow each situation to be a case study for discussion, explanation and potential change with management.  Is there something that should have been or could be done better?  Look together at how this termination might spur others on towards excellence.  How do we foster that?  Develop a plan of growth with management for those employees whose cages will be rattled.  Train a manager through this.  Or just settle for the basic thrill of dropping the hammer on someone’s employment.  It’s too easy to merely laugh with management and then be done.  Use every opportunity to grow people.
• HR Support – Why did this employee fail?  While, in certain circumstances, it will be hard to find anything more that the organization could have done to support the success of the employee, it won’t be the case all of the time.  What broke?  Why?  If it means job duty changes, do it.  If it’s about qualifications rather than the duties, then update them.  If a manager is struggling to deal with someone different than him/her, then coach them.  Whatever action has to happen, work out a plan to do it.  Too many HR departments will sit back after a termination and throttle the manager or other employees in the department.  We know best, right?  As we sit in our unapproachable offices sitting on our ergonomic throne, we dictate our truths about our people and our company.  Probably not the best approach.

This employee being fired is a person.  And as simple as this last thought may be, it is classically the one forgotten the most.  He/She has to go home and tell loved ones.  He/She has to deal with what's next.  And while it may be completely the fault of this person as to why the separation is occurring, and we had to act to separate, this person should be treated respectfully in the process.  It may not make for a great movie to end this way, but it makes for a great company when even the separation displays the right kind of response and culture.

Time After Time

For a brief stint, I worked as a middle school teacher.  Teaching is a wonderful gift and I was delighted to do so.  I found that the most time spent, however, was directed towards items and issues that were not germane to the work I was asked to do.  Over and over again, forms had to be completed, state requirements proven and validated, interviewing with academia, etc.  Please understand that I believe in compliance and in accountability…definitely.  What I struggled with was the amount of time it took and how much time it took away from the students.

In human resources, I have experienced and witnessed a similar phenomenon.  While the distractions may differ, the results are the same.  For example, think about how much time you spend at your desk.  Can’t do it?  How about for the next 7 days, you keep a log (seriously!) as to how much time you are sitting at your desk.  Now, while sitting at your desk is not the enemy, per se, it may show you how much less you’re actually amongst the people you serve. 

And it isn’t just about paperwork either.  I bet it would be amazing for you to log how long you actually spend with a particular person or two each week.  Perhaps it’s all good stuff, but likely, you may have your time taxed by someone that should not have as much time as he/she has been allowed to have.  Think about that employee who “just needs 5 minutes” each day.  We know that 5 becomes 20 in seconds.  If it’s every day, what could you do with an extra hour and 40 minutes each week? 

There are still those time-suckers who want to review something again, complain about something again, have software explained to them again…it’s the same stuff time after time.  Am I insane?  Do I expect a different outcome?  Why do I allow this distraction to take me away from serving the larger population?  Stop the madness…you cannot get that time back.  Make decisions about the wasting of time.  If someone cannot handle the work they’ve been given, then get them out of that role.  If the same process isn’t getting the results needed, then put the effort in to change the process so you can be free from the hamster wheel.  Make the change.

I am not making light of responsibilities.  I know that form completion matters.  I know that one-on-one chats have to happen.  I know that your CEO will walk into your office and eat an hour of time.  I know.  Is that every day?  Is it keeping you from the objectives you’ve set?

Time will keep moving on.  Those goals you have for 2014 have a smaller window for completion.  We’re about 9.5 months into the year.  Can you accomplish those goals you set for the people of your organization in these last couple of months?  If so, maybe those goals weren’t so stretching after all?

Are you allowing busyness and distraction to keep you from what you’re to do?  My words are easy to type.  The action of leaving your office for a time and closing the door behind you might be a discipline that you have to employ.  Be with the people.  Learn processes.  Watch cultural interaction.  Those components will make you a better HR person, a better business partner, a better worker.  You will be energized, enlightened…more alive!  Take back your time.

Waiting on the World to Change

Discipline.  Love it.  In the context of achieving a goal, it's fantastically needed.  To endeavor to lose weight, for example, requires discipline.  It requires commitment, determination and resolve.  I've been exercising forever.  My mom says that when I was a toddler, I used to watch a show, "Exercise with Gloria," on our local Philadelphia station and would imitate the aerobic and stretching moves.  I was committed to doing what she did - stance by stance, stretch by stretch.  As adults, when we watch someone exercise discipline towards such a health-related goal, we are inspired.

So why does the use of the word "discipline" have to change when applied to correction?  When I discipline one of my kids, which I hardly ever have to do because they rock (truth be told, they usually have to provide correction for their dad), I'd like to think I offer it as an encouragement towards excellence and validation of my commitment to their well-being.  Of course, the relational aspect helps to bridge these intentions.

In the workplace, can we provide a similar position in how we administer discipline?  Think about the goal of discipline at the workplace - it's to change behavior.  Let's do Psych 101, shall we?  Behavior modification is best achieved through a few steps at the workplace:

1. Define the problem for the employee and allow the employee to ask questions for understanding
2. Discuss practical ways to address the issue and allow for collaboration, when prudent, from the employee
3. Ensure the active behavior changes are both initiative and reactive in usage (What will I do differently? - initiative; How will I respond differently in the next similar situation? - reactive)
4. Hold the employee accountable for the agreed upon changes

Very simple and straight-forward, right?  Well, the list may be, but the implementation will take more effort.  For some of you, your companies already engage in this type of positive discipline, but for many, this represents a counter-culture method to the argumentative, vindictive or stoic nature of discipline currently in place.  We know that long-term behavioral changes come with deeper connectivity to the issue at hand and to the solutions that will affect the desired change.  Whether it's lateness or a problem with productivity, if we can provide discipline that outlines clearly the issue, the solution and the method to achieve it with collaborative understanding from the employee, it's a home run.

We get to be the ones who enact such change in approach to employee discipline.  Don't wait for your boss, your managers or the world, for that matter, to change first.  From a scientific and measurable way, we can show that approaching employee discipline from this angle will bring a marked difference.  Discipline is not a scary word or activity.  Now, strap on your Thigh Master while at work and get to it!  Get motivated to change employee discipline!